The most powerful help for me has been the Forever Footprints Support Group. These are men and women (mostly women in my group) who have also lost babies.
Everyone wants to feel that they understand your pain....but think about what they say, "I can't imagine losing a child"....correct, you CAN'T imagine because the thought is too devastating.
In this group, we all KNOW the pain. While hearing each others stories is very emotional, it also brings us together. There is a sense of peace when you are with people who just "get it".